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Becoming The Adult Your Teen Wants To Talk To

An Evening with Alex Kopelman

Thursday, October 8, 2026

6 PM - 8 PM, PDT

Drew School, 2901 California St, SF, CA

**In-Person Event**

Is your teen shutting you out just when they need you most?

As parents, we want to be a trusted anchor for our teens. Yet, the intense pressures of high school can make real communication feel completely out of reach. When we try to help, our advice is often met with rolled eyes, short answers, or closed doors.

Join the Parents Coalition of Bay Area High Schools for an interactive evening with Alexander Kopelman, author of For Real (published June 2026). Alex will shift the focus from trying to "fix" adolescent behavior to helping you become the adult your teenager genuinely wants to turn to.

You will walk away with actionable insights on:

  • Breaking the cycle: How your own upbringing unconsciously shapes your parenting expectations.

  • Real engagement: Practical tools for honest, compassionate listening that replace reflexive advice-giving.

  • Navigating their world: Inside access to the emotional and social terrain your high schooler faces daily.

  • Lowering friction: Minor adjustments in adult behavior that instantly boost teen resilience.

“Research is unambiguous: teenagers who have at least one caring adult who genuinely sees them develop greater resilience, stronger mental health, and healthier relationships throughout their lives.” —Alexander Kopelman

This presentation is for parents who want to be that adult for their teen.

Our Speaker:

Alexander Kopelman is a writer, social entrepreneur, advocate, and coach who has devoted 40 years to advancing social justice and personal empowerment.

His lifelong interest in identity, self-determination, and the power of narrative has fueled his commitment to supporting young people, and the adults in their lives, in overcoming the limiting effects of outmoded societal expectations.

As Founding President & CEO of the Children's Arts Guild, Alex helped create and grow a nonprofit organization that supports children in harnessing the power of creativity to transcend limiting expectations and develop their authentic selves.

Prior to For Real, Alex authored and co-authored ten books. He lives in New York City with his wife, daughter, and very small dog.

Event Details:

6:00-6:30 PM Check-in & Reception

6:30-8:00 PM Presentation: Alex Kopelman - Becoming The Adult Your Teen Wants To Talk To

8:00 PM Book-signing opportunity following the presentation

Submit your questions for Alex in advance during registration.

**In-Person Event**

Parking/Transportation: 

**Parking is very limited: Allow extra time!

Public transportation & ride-share alternatives HIGHLY encouraged

Drew School is on the Muni 1 California line and 1 block from 24 Divisadero line

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